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Why They Won’t Give What You Deserve

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People won’t give you what you deserve , they give you who they are.

If you have repeatedly felt betrayed, unheard, unseen or emotionally ghosted, that’s because they don’t care about how their actions hurt you.

You cannot repair the connection with someone who refuses to acknowledge their actions caused you pain.

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They will always make you feel too much for having valid reactions and emotions to the pain they cause because that’s who they are.

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The relational patterns you never learned will quietly run every connection you have.

You'll keep trying harder, giving more, shrinking yourself — and still wonder why your emotional needs go unmet.

Because no matter how much you bring, you cannot clap with one hand.

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Your lack of understanding of your own needs, the health of the relationship that you have with yourself will hold you back from getting the fulfilment you seek in others.

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That work sometimes needs to start with you first.

Because when you have a strong self concept, you’ll not tolerate someone treating you less than you deserve.

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The next time you think you deserve better, be better with yourself first.

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